It is not the job of others to love you but yours. You better start loving you because when your job on earth is done and you go home to that grave, you will be there all alone with nobody to play with, talk to as your earthly body suite decays back to matter.
Focus on God as the only way to eternity and stop disturbing yourself about who loves you and approves of you.
Enjoy the very best days on earth that God has given to you, knowing that we are all on borrowed time. Stop competing with others for there is no need to do that.
Acknowledge your strength and admit your weakness in life and work towards being a better person for that is what your owe yourself.
LOVE YOU! EMBRACE YOU! ACCEPT YOU! BE KIND TO YOU!
I am Dr. Pat Akpabio