What you say to another person really matters. If you know how powerful your words are, you will use them carefully. ‘Put away perversity from your mouth; keep corrupt talk far from your lips’ (Proverbs 4:24) admonishes us.

It is said that the words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers: ‘Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?’ Think and process your words carefully before you speak them out. Let love guide your utterances for your follow human being.

Bless instead of curse
Lift instead of put down
Encourage instead discourage
Praise instead of condemn
Support instead of breakdown
Buildup instead of tear down
Promote instead of gossip
Celebrate instead bad talking
Love instead of hate

Never you allow your words to be the reason why another human being like yourself is crying, lamenting, sad or broken. Let your words be seasoned with Salt at all times. Watch what you say to others don’t forget the golden rule.

Women let us be more compassionate towards other women. Not every woman that asks yor spouse for help is interested in him and this is vice versa. Women let us support ourselves instead of tearing ourselves down consistently.

Let our words encourage and push a follow woman to the top. We are not in competition with one another but know this, there is enough room for all to fly because the sky is big enough and if you doubt me, ask the STARS in the galaxy.

I am Dr. Princess Pat Akpabio